Create a LaTeX style table in Markdown with colors

I want to create a table like this in Rmarkdown:

and this website can generate codes to create a similar table in LaTeX which can be used in Rmarkdown. However, after generating the code and copying it into Rmarkdown, I received an error:

The code in Rmarkdown:

---
title: "misc"
author: "Me"
date: "`r Sys.Date()`"
output:
  pdf_document:
    keep_tex: true
    extra_dependencies: caption
    number_sections: yes
fig_caption: yes
header-includes:
- \PassOptionsToPackage{table,xcdraw}{xcolor}
- \usepackage{xcolor}
- \usepackage{color}
- \usepackage{float}
- \usepackage{framed}
- \usepackage{fontawesome}
- \usepackage{caption}
- \usepackage{multirow}
- \usepackage[table]{xcolor}


fontsize: 11pt
urlcolor: blue
---

```{r setup, include=FALSE}
knitr::opts_chunk$set(echo = TRUE)
```

```{=latex}

\begin{table}[]
\begin{tabular}{|
>{\columncolor[HTML]{656565}}c |lcccc|}
\hline
\cellcolor[HTML]{656565}{\color[HTML]{FFFFFF} }                                                                                   & \multicolumn{5}{c|}{\cellcolor[HTML]{656565}{\color[HTML]{FFFFFF} Type of Distribution}}                                                                                                                                                             \\ \cline{2-6} 
\cellcolor[HTML]{656565}{\color[HTML]{FFFFFF} }                                                                                   & \multicolumn{1}{l|}{}             & \multicolumn{1}{l|}{Lognormal}                          & \multicolumn{1}{l|}{Exponential}                        & \multicolumn{1}{l|}{Gamma}                              & \multicolumn{1}{l|}{Weibull}       \\ \cline{2-6} 
\cellcolor[HTML]{656565}{\color[HTML]{FFFFFF} }                                                                                   & \multicolumn{1}{l|}{Box-Cox}      & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{Y}                                  & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{Y}                                  & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{\cellcolor[HTML]{9B9B9B}\textbf{Y}} & \cellcolor[HTML]{9B9B9B}\textbf{Y} \\ \cline{2-6} 
\cellcolor[HTML]{656565}{\color[HTML]{FFFFFF} }                                                                                   & \multicolumn{1}{l|}{Exponential}  & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{Y}                                  & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{Y}                                  & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{Y}                                  & Y                                  \\ \cline{2-6} 
\cellcolor[HTML]{656565}{\color[HTML]{FFFFFF} }                                                                                   & \multicolumn{1}{l|}{Simple power} & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{Y}                                  & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{\cellcolor[HTML]{9B9B9B}\textbf{Y}} & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{\cellcolor[HTML]{9B9B9B}\textbf{Y}} & \cellcolor[HTML]{9B9B9B}\textbf{Y} \\ \cline{2-6} 
\multirow{-6}{*}{\cellcolor[HTML]{656565}{\color[HTML]{FFFFFF} \begin{tabular}[c]{@{}c@{}}Type of\\ transformation\end{tabular}}} & \multicolumn{1}{l|}{Logarithmic}  & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{\cellcolor[HTML]{9B9B9B}\textbf{Y}} & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{Y}                                  & \multicolumn{1}{c|}{\cellcolor[HTML]{9B9B9B}\textbf{N}} & \cellcolor[HTML]{9B9B9B}\textbf{N} \\ \hline
\end{tabular}
\end{table}
```

and here the Error I receive:

! Undefined control sequence.
<argument> | >{\columncolor 
                            [HTML]{656565}}c |lcccc|
l.92 >{\columncolor[HTML]{656565}}c |lcccc|}

I also followed the instructions here, but didn't work and when I remove the - \PassOptionsToPackage{table,xcdraw}{xcolor}in the preamble I get this error:! LaTeX Error: Option clash for package xcolor.