I'm using this Codepen to load YouTube video only on clicking the placeholder/thumbnail.
It's works, but requires two click to play the video in Chrome. (even though ?autoplay=1 is added).
I know that videos will be autoplayed only if it's muted or user has interacted with the site. In this case, user interacts by clicking the placeholder/thumbnail.
<iframe
width="560"
height="315"
src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/Y8Wp3dafaMQ"
srcdoc="<style>*{padding:0;margin:0;overflow:hidden}html,body{height:100%}img,span{position:absolute;width:100%;top:0;bottom:0;margin:auto}span{height:1.5em;text-align:center;font:48px/1.5 sans-serif;color:white;text-shadow:0 0 0.5em black}</style><a href=https://www.youtube.com/embed/Y8Wp3dafaMQ?autoplay=1><img src=https://img.youtube.com/vi/Y8Wp3dafaMQ/hqdefault.jpg alt='Video The Dark Knight Rises: What Went Wrong? – Wisecrack Edition'><span>▶</span></a>"
frameborder="0"
allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture"
allowfullscreen
title="The Dark Knight Rises: What Went Wrong? – Wisecrack Edition"
></iframe>
Under the hood, this code uses srcdoc to link to the YouTube video from the image, e.g.: <a href="YOUTUBE_VIDEO"><img src="THUMBNAIL"/></a>).