I have a distance matrix with IDs as column and row names:
A B C D
A 0 1 2 3
B 1 0 4 5
C 2 4 0 6
D 3 5 6 0
How to efficiently extract values from a large matrix, e.g. for IDs A and C to get this matrix:
A C
A 0 2
C 2 0
Edit, missing IDs in the matrix should be ignored.