I have tried to install 10.0.19041.0 through windows but it always kicks to 19041.1
For how to modify the SDKReference version, you can try following step:
By referring Section 5 of Update your C#/VB projects to use the latest Universal Windows Platform
Right-click your existing project(YourProjectName(Universal Windows)) in solution explorer, then select Unload Project. After the project is unloaded, right-click the project file again and choose to edit the .vcxproj file.
Find "SDKReference" element and change the value of version from "10.0.19041.1" to your version like "10.0.19041.0".
<ItemGroup>
<SDKReference Include="WindowsMobile, Version=10.0.19041.1" />
</ItemGroup>
to
<ItemGroup>
<SDKReference Include="WindowsMobile, Version=10.0.19041.0" />
</ItemGroup>
Besides, since you are using HoloLens2, it is recommended to set the Architecture in the Unity Build Setting window to x64.