Firstly, to pass additional parameters to the function passed to the method param of geom_smooth, you can pass a list of named parameters to method.args.
Secondly, the problem you're seeing is that glm is placing the coefficient in front of the whole term: y ~ coef * exp(x) instead of inside: y ~ exp(coef * x) like you want. You could use optimization to solve the latter outside of glm, but you can fit it into the GLM paradigm by a transformation: a log link. This works because it's like taking the equation you want to fit, y = exp(coef * x), and taking the log of both sides, so you're now fitting log(y) = coef * x, which is equivalent to what you want to fit and works with the GLM paradigm. (This ignores the intercept. It also ends up in transformed link units, but it's easy enough to convert back if you like.)
You can run this outside of ggplot to see what the models look like:
df <- data.frame(
x = c(65,53,41,32,28,26,23,19),
y <- c(4,3,2,8,12,8,20,15)
)
bad_model <- glm(y ~ exp(x), family = gaussian(link = 'identity'), data = df)
good_model <- glm(y ~ x, family = gaussian(link = 'log'), data = df)
# this is bad
summary(bad_model)
#>
#> Call:
#> glm(formula = y ~ exp(x), family = gaussian(link = "identity"),
#> data = df)
#>
#> Deviance Residuals:
#> Min 1Q Median 3Q Max
#> -7.7143 -2.9643 -0.8571 3.0357 10.2857
#>
#> Coefficients:
#> Estimate Std. Error t value Pr(>|t|)
#> (Intercept) 9.714e+00 2.437e+00 3.986 0.00723 **
#> exp(x) -3.372e-28 4.067e-28 -0.829 0.43881
#> ---
#> Signif. codes: 0 '***' 0.001 '**' 0.01 '*' 0.05 '.' 0.1 ' ' 1
#>
#> (Dispersion parameter for gaussian family taken to be 41.57135)
#>
#> Null deviance: 278.00 on 7 degrees of freedom
#> Residual deviance: 249.43 on 6 degrees of freedom
#> AIC: 56.221
#>
#> Number of Fisher Scoring iterations: 2
# this is better
summary(good_model)
#>
#> Call:
#> glm(formula = y ~ x, family = gaussian(link = "log"), data = df)
#>
#> Deviance Residuals:
#> Min 1Q Median 3Q Max
#> -3.745 -2.600 0.046 1.812 6.080
#>
#> Coefficients:
#> Estimate Std. Error t value Pr(>|t|)
#> (Intercept) 3.93579 0.51361 7.663 0.000258 ***
#> x -0.05663 0.02054 -2.757 0.032997 *
#> ---
#> Signif. codes: 0 '***' 0.001 '**' 0.01 '*' 0.05 '.' 0.1 ' ' 1
#>
#> (Dispersion parameter for gaussian family taken to be 12.6906)
#>
#> Null deviance: 278.000 on 7 degrees of freedom
#> Residual deviance: 76.143 on 6 degrees of freedom
#> AIC: 46.728
#>
#> Number of Fisher Scoring iterations: 6
From here, you can reproduce what geom_smooth is going to do: make a sequence of x values across the domain and use the predictions as the y values for the line:
# new data is a sequence across the domain of the model
new_df <- data.frame(x = seq(min(df$x), max(df$x), length = 501))
# `type = 'response'` because we want values for y back in y units
new_df$bad_pred <- predict(bad_model, newdata = new_df, type = 'response')
new_df$good_pred <- predict(good_model, newdata = new_df, type = 'response')
library(tidyr)
library(ggplot2)
new_df %>%
# reshape to long form for ggplot
gather(model, y, contains('pred')) %>%
ggplot(aes(x, y)) +
geom_line(aes(color = model)) +
# plot original points on top
geom_point(data = df)

Of course, it's a lot easier to let ggplot handle all that for you:
ggplot(df, aes(x, y)) +
geom_smooth(
method = 'glm',
formula = y ~ x,
method.args = list(family = gaussian(link = 'log'))
) +
geom_point()
