I wan't to leave the for loop if the count j reaches 0.
set /a j=3
for /R c:\dsd_imports\ad_and_deal %%i IN (*.*) DO (
MDI_import_ad_command.bat C:\DSD_IMPORTS\AD_AND_DEAL\%%~nxi
MOVE %%i c:\dsd_imports\ad_and_deal\in_process
set /a j=j-1
if j == 0
break
)