When using a classical Tomcat approach, you can give your server a maximum number of threads it can use to handle web requests from users. Using the Reactive Programming paradigm, and Reactor in Spring 5, we are able to scale better vertically, making sure we are blocked minimally.
It seems to me that it makes this less manageable than the classical Tomcat approach, where you simply define the max number of concurrent requests. When you have a max number of concurrent requests, it's easier to estimate the maximum memory your application will need and scale accordingly. When you use Spring 5's Reactive Programming this seems like more of a hassle.
When I talk about these new technologies to sysadmin friends, they reply with worry about applications running out of RAM, or even threads on the OS level. So how can we deal with this better?