A client of mine gave me a server name which is fully qualified [servername].somedomain.net
to try to connect to their SQL Server instance over VPN.
So I tried, using the username and password they gave me. No luck. I can ping it but cannot connect, I get the error that the username and password is incorrect.
So I log onto the actual server, verify that my login is in security and has rights and it appears there. Workgroup\mylogin and it appears that workgroup\ actually is the same as somedomain.net\mylogin. Because when I try to add somedomain.net\mylogin, it resorts to saying that it's already added which is workgroup\mylogin.
Not sure what else to check here. I gave myself sysadmin role in SQL Server. I can ping the server's IP.
I looked at how they are authenticating me and they have my user in SQL Server set up to use Windows Auth. Well, the error I get is that it cannot trust cross domain when trying to use windows auth when I try to connect locally here in my management studio. I'm connected tot their VPN so what could be the problem?
They're not available right now to try to troubleshoot it and I'm just curious what else I might try to try and resolve this on my own if I can.

