I've heard suggestions to use the following:
if qs.exists():
...
if qs.count():
...
try:
qs[0]
except IndexError:
...
Copied from comment below: "I'm looking for a statement like "In MySQL and PostgreSQL count() is faster for short queries, exists() is faster for long queries, and use QuerySet[0] when it's likely that you're going to need the first element and you want to check that it exists. However, when count() is faster it's only marginally faster so it's advisable to always use exists() when choosing between the two."