Is there a way to flush a POSIX socket?

For Unix-domain sockets, you can use fflush(), but I'm thinking you probably mean network sockets. There isn't really a concept of flushing those. The closest things are:

1. At the end of your session, calling shutdown(sock, SHUT_WR) to close out writes on the socket.

2. On TCP sockets, disabling the Nagle algorithm with sockopt TCP_NODELAY, which is generally a terrible idea that will not reliably do what you want, even if it seems to take care of it on initial investigation.

It's very likely that handling whatever issue is calling for a 'flush' at the user protocol level is going to be the right thing.

There is no way that I am aware of in the standard TCP/IP socket interface to flush the data "all the way through to the remote end" and ensure it has actually been acknowledged.

Generally speaking, if your protocol has a need for "real-time" transfer of data, generally the best thing to do is to set the setsockopt() of TCP_NODELAY. This disables the Nagle algorithm in the protocol stack and write() or send() on the socket more directly maps to sends out onto the network....instead of implementing send hold offs waiting for more bytes to become available and using all the TCP level timers to decide when to send. NOTE: Turning off Nagle does not disable the TCP sliding window or anything, so it is always safe to do....but if you don't need the "real-time" properties, packet overhead can go up quite a bit.

Beyond that, if the normal TCP socket mechanisms don't fit your application, then generally you need to fall back to using UDP and building your own protocol features on the basic send/receive properties of UDP. This is very common when your protocol has special needs, but don't underestimate the complexity of doing this well and getting it all stable and functionally correct in all but relatively simple applications. As a starting point, a thorough study of TCP's design features will shed light on many of the issues that need to be considered.

I think it would be extremely difficult, if not impossible to implement correctly. What is the meaning of "flush" in this context? Bytes transmitted to network? Bytes acknowledged by receiver's TCP stack? Bytes passed on to receiver's user-mode app? Bytes completely processed by user-mode app?

Looks like you need to do it at the app level...

TCP gives only best-effort delivery, so the act of having all the bytes leave Machine A is asynchronous with their all having been received at Machine B. The TCP/IP protocol stack knows, of course, but I don't know of any way to interrogate the TCP stack to find out if everything sent has been acknowledged.

By far the easiest way to handle the question is at the application level. Open a second TCP socket to act as a back channel and have the remote partner send you an acknowledgement that it has received the info you want. It will cost double but will be completely portable and will save you hours of programming time.

There is a linux-specific way to do this on TCP sockets:

You don't force the tcp stack to "send out data immediately", but remember that you and kernel are sending data as fast as you can. You can slightly reduce the delay between send and actual delivery with TCP_NODELAY.

But basically, by doing send you've done your part and you just have to wait for tcp to do its part.

You can Use ioctl on the socket with SIOCOUTQ or TIOCOUTQ to query the status of delivery and just wait until it's finished. This should be be enough. Especially for use-cases like sending an application-level packet fragments.