Update k8s object via go code as owner ref

I want to update a k8s crd object via go k8s sdk code,the problem is that when I do it I got an error that the object have different owner reference, so I tried with the following (adding the OwnerReferences object) without success, any idea what else I should try?

objectMeta: v1.ObjectMeta{
            Labels:    map[string]string{},
            Name:      "vectoad",
            Namespace: "gateys",
            OwnerReferences: []v1.OwnerReference{
                {
                    APIVersion: "v1",
                    Kind:       "vts",
                    Name:       "gcay/dev-geay",
                    UID:        "1",
                },
            },
        },