i have a event web app on react.js | when logged-in user set an event on event page - assume four days later from today and there is another dropdown input filed of setReminder with values 4 hours ago / 3 hours ago and so on and on submit i'm calling or hiting an
route/api/endpoint/postRequest post->api->userSchema->mongoDB->req.body -
json
{ setReminderTime: currentDateTime - req.body.data.setReminderValue } etc. etc.
and saving other more data and so now i want to my code to run a function in there i write some code i want that code to exicute on that event date/time - {minus} that reminder date/time (4 hours or 3 or 2 hours ago ) so in reminder i send a notification or a smg or want to do other things more and i don't want to hit my databse each second and i also don't want to do use setTimeout staf beacuse my server refresh again again due to puch->updates