I'm currently trying to run an application on a server but my customer is very 'picky' about their data and wish to store the database on their own internal office server. I've installed MySQL and can get the application to run locally but for a few specific reasons the application needs to run else where.
I basically can't get access to MySQL from a different location. I think my main stumbling block is port forwarding to the correct location. MySQL is installed on a mac mini with local IP address 192.168.1.242 and the router/modem is an Apple Time Capsule. I've tried looking at tutorials but they all have options that I don't have access to. I've attached a screenshot of the options I have access to and the settings I've tried so far.
Other information possibly needed is:
- I need to connect from PHP
- I've set a user up within MySQL with a wildcard (%)
- I'm testing it using the following: command on my local machine in CMD: mysql -u username -h remote_ip_address -p
- I get the following error: ERROR 2003 (HY000): Can't connect to MySQL server on 'REMOTE_IP_ADDRESS' (10061)
- Firewall is turned off completely on the Mac Mini
- There is nothing in the my.cnf file
- OS is Sierra
That's all I can think of at the moment but any advice would be greatly appreciated and any more information required can be provided.
PS. evidently I'm not very good with MAC machines/networks

