I am unable to get any sort of debugging working with react native ios simulator. I had this working before but after restarting a new project (RN went up from 0.69 to 0.70 in between this project change), it does not work anymore. I am trying to open the Debugger here:

I noticed that it used to have a Remote JS debugger option but that is now gone. When I click on Open Debugger, I get this in the metro terminal and nothing happens:

I have tried debugging in safari as well and the sources do not show and also have tried launch.json configurations with React Native Tools in vscode but nothing works.